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Cheating and fornication

Wives worry and fear that they might lose their husband to other women

Husbands experience heart-broken that their wives were cheating 

This fear engulf many across geographies. 

What should a wife or husband do instead?

The fact is that cheating is universalistic.

If your husband was able to love you, what made you think that he cannot love another woman possibly?

While I don't support or subscribe to the behaviour as it's against the societal moral standards, just like fornication, cheating will continue to exist.

No amount of prayer, laws and regulations can totally eliminate the fornication habit that leads to cheating

Because the eyes is capable of beholding, of appreciating and of loving what it admires.

If we fornicate to buy a well package mobile phone, cars, clothes and beautiful homes.

If the eyes must behold to admire. If we can love beautiful things.

What make you think that your husband or a wife cannot do otherwise?

One solution is to advise, educate and persuade the cheat to jettison the behaviour.

Quarreling and fighting won't stop it!

They won't!



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