John Iduh Blog

Is ceasefire a deception or a relief of tension. In their Orthodox Christmas eve, Russia declared ceasefire in the southern and the eastern Ukraine where its army occupies since February 2022. Ukrainian president calls this a deception. Deception because the likelihood to resume attack, is a certain probability. Cease could be a relieve of tension too when: Terror-induced husband relaxes his anger against the wife Shouting boss calms his nerves when he finds out that shouting doesn't drive sense into his employees' heads. Ceasefire is not only a metaphor that surfaces at war time.  It could be a moderate programming to restore peace in marriage, liberty and more just order, at home and in the workplace.  

The Bible (theological history) help us to understand Jesus Christ who was born in manger but never remain there. A small seed sown in a soil must sprout in good condition, and never remain the same. In 1898, when Spain was losing control of Cuba to the independence movement, the United States intervened, effectively preventing the triumph of a social revolution.  The United States subsequently managed the construction of a Cuban Republic in which the traditional elites, threatened by the radicalism of the intended independence, maintained a privileged position. Till date, Cuba remains poor and her citizens are on desperate journey to cross to the the United States for better life. Your case shouldn't be so! If you can look inward, you will find some energies to help you move from the state you are at the moment to higher level of destiny.

 Especially when someone you ever talk with, and often socialize with was gone Especially when the hands of time was hard to turn back But your neck remains on your neck. It hurts when profound change comes knocking It hurts. And indeed it hurts.

 There is one thing I know that brings pain. I mean the painful pain Not the pains when you got wounded Not the pains when someone disappoints you The pains when someone you ever with, chat, discuss and share words with is gone. I mean the pain that emerges from cuts from socializing with that person It pains when someone you ever love was gone It pains when someone you ever live with or see everyday, now and often travel or walk off and left you. The pain is painful. But no one has an eye to see the colours of pain.

Wives worry and fear that they might lose their husband to other women Husbands experience heart-broken that their wives were cheating  This fear engulf many across geographies.  What should a wife or husband do instead? The fact is that cheating is universalistic. If your husband was able to love you, what made you think that he cannot love another woman possibly? While I don't support or subscribe to the behaviour as it's against the societal moral standards, just like fornication, cheating will continue to exist. No amount of prayer, laws and regulations can totally eliminate the fornication habit that leads to cheating Because the eyes is capable of beholding, of appreciating and of loving what it admires. If we fornicate to buy a well package mobile phone, cars, clothes and beautiful homes. If the eyes must behold to admire. If we can love beautiful things. What make you think that your husband or a wife cannot do otherwise? One solution is to advise, educate and persuade

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 If you believe that feeling bad or worrying long enough will change a current event, the past or future experiences, then you are residing on another planet with a different reality system. Throughout life, the two most futile emotions are guilt for what has been done and worry about what might be done.  Guilt means that you use up your present moments being immobilized as a result of past behavior, while worry is the contrivance that keeps you immobilized in the now about something in the future—frequently something over which you have no control.  You can see this clearly if you try to think of yourself as feeling guilty about an event that has yet to occur, or to worry about something that has happened.  Although one response is to the future and the other to the past, they both serve the identical purpose of keeping you upset or immobile in your present moment.  Robert Jones Burdette wrote in Golden Day:  It isn’t the experience of today that drives men mad. It is the remorse fo